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12:36AM Sunday 05 July, 2009

Distraught mother mourns ‘daredevil’ son

Distraught mother mourns ‘daredevil’ son

18-year-old Tyson Leader died tragically on the Gold Coast on Friday night after he fell 24 storeys from the Aegean Hotel in the heart of Surfers Paradise.

Jan Leader always knew her son Tyson had the heart of a daredevil.

“I was at his pre-school speaking to one of his teachers and she was looking past me and her eyes were looking up,” she said.

“And there at the very top of the tree was Tyson. He was three years old.

“I knew if I yelled, he might fall, so I said ‘Tyson, you get back down here now’ and he did, but he had a great big smile on his face.

“And that was just him. He just had no fear.”It wouldn’t be the last time Jan’s heart would almost stop after seeing or hearing about her youngest son’s daredevil deeds, but he would answer her concerns with a cheeky grin, an “awww mummm” and a promise to be more careful.

She saw that cheeky smile for the last time on Friday when she dropped Tyson at a friend’s house ahead of his trip to the Gold Coast for the 18th birthday celebrations of one of his best mates.

“I said to him ‘have you packed your toothbrush?’ and he just looked at me and said ‘mum, I’m not going to school camp. I’m 18-years-old,’ so I bit my tongue. “So I just said to him ‘be safe’ and he said ‘yes mum’.”

But as any of the former Mountain Creek High student’s friends would tell you, Tyson would do anything to make others laugh.

It was probably what he was trying to do when he decided to swing off the balcony of a 24th floor unit in a Gold Coast high-rise on Friday night.

He had slipped over the edge and was holding onto the railing in a crouching position with both hands, when he decided to let go with one hand.

With his mate Jimmy Atkins still just 30cm away and staring into his eyes, Tyson’s other hand slipped and he fell.

“We had to go to the morgue to go see him and I just looked at him and said ‘mate, what part of be safe did you not get?’,” Jan said yesterday remembered her son with the cheeky grin.

“But he was just doing what he loved. He is such a social kid and he touched so many kids’ lives. He would just collect people, he just loved everyone and wanted everyone to get along.

“He had a gorgeous girlfriend, he loved his job, everything was just starting to come together for him.”

Tyson’s older brother Ryan, 21, was last night trying to organise a flight from the UK where he has spent the past two years, so he could be with his mum and her husband Matt.

He had just asked his little brother to be best man at his wedding and in the hours before the accident had sent a text message letting “Tyso” know how much he loved him.

But while she waits for her eldest son to come home, Jan said Tyson’s many friends have been “a huge comfort” to her.

Within hours of the accident they had begun dropping by her Buderim home to share their stories, give her hugs and remember a warm, caring and funny teen. Some of those friends, including his girlfriend Alex, gathered for a barbecue at Alexandra Headland yesterday to try and comfort each other.

“It hasn’t sunk in yet,” said Cam Dunn.

“It’ll hit me when he doesn’t come over. I’m still just waiting for him to rock up, but I know it’s not going to happen. It’s surreal.”

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on 10 September, 2007 at 8:46 a.m. ( Suggest removal )
How can you possibly feel sorry for this guy?
on 10 September, 2007 at 10:08 a.m. ( Suggest removal )
(from Tyson's Myspace page)

You will always be in my heart….

You were the craziest guy I ever knew… I’ll never forget when you jumped off my roof into the pool… When you put liquid soap around the pool to slide in, and then the pool had bubbles in it… Or when you lit the fireworks and one fell over and headed straight for Kieran and burnt his leg hairs off… But most of all how you lived your life with no fear… And never changed for anyone… I will do my best to look out for Jan for you…I will never forget you… Rest in Peace Tyson James Leader…
~AdOrAbLe AvErAgE~
on 10 September, 2007 at 10:14 a.m. ( Suggest removal )
(From Tyson's Myspace page)

RIP champ, ur an absolute legend, always will be, will miss u heaps
Nathan
on 10 September, 2007 at 10:16 a.m. ( Suggest removal )
(From Tyson's Myspace page)
I don't know what to say to you. You were one of the best people I know, always had a smile on your face. If anyone of us was sad you could always cheer us up. I'm going to miss you so much. R.I.P
~ChRiStIe~
on 10 September, 2007 at 10:18 a.m. ( Suggest removal )
(from Tyson's Myspace page)

Rest in peace brother.
you will always be missed and thought of greatly.
Tuckyy
on 10 September, 2007 at 10:26 a.m. ( Suggest removal )
(from Tyson's Myspace page)

You will never be forgotten son. I’d like to thank all your friends for their support there’s so much love for you in the world. You are such a legend. You were always the leader of the pack and always will be. I miss you so much son. You lived life to the fullest. You were such an amazing person. I’m so proud of the man you grew up to be. Look out for us all up there. You will always be in our hearts. I’ve always loved you and always will. Rest in Peace son. Eternal love, your daddy
on 10 September, 2007 at 10:30 a.m. ( Suggest removal )
I can't believe you Newshound, how can you write such a thing? All of us at some stage in our life has done something that put our life at risk. When you are young you think you are invincible. Show a bit of compassion. This is a tragic accident. My thoughts and prayers go to the mother and friends that loved him.
on 10 September, 2007 at 11:33 a.m. ( Suggest removal )
Newshound you are the most heartless person.
I'm Tyson's sister and can't believe you would make a comment like that!
How would you feel if it was your child or brother or sister? You will never be able to even partly understand what all of Tyson's family and friends are going through until you lose someone who meant so much to all of us in a tragic accident.
Would you be saying the same thing if he had been in a car accident?

RIP little brother....Your memory will live on in all of us forever. We know you are watching over all of us now and we are grateful that you were in our lives even for a short amount of time.
To all his friends and family keep smiling....Tyson lives on in our hearts and memory....he is watching over us all now.
on 10 September, 2007 at 12:25 p.m. ( Suggest removal )
It's a tragic accident, yes, I am sure he was a great guy. Sorry if I offended anyone, but this was a self-inflicted injury, wasn't it. I can't remember the last time I held myself off a 20 storey building with one hand ... I
on 10 September, 2007 at 1:02 p.m. ( Suggest removal )
I've said a prayer for you Newshound, you really have no compassion. A family has lost their beloved son and all you can do is get on here and write callous comments. Pull your head in.
on 10 September, 2007 at 1:04 p.m. ( Suggest removal )
Newshound I am totally disgusted with your comment. Keep your opinion to yourself. This family is having a hard enough time dealing with the loss of someone they loved dearly. Tyson was a typical 18 year old young man, maybe a little more daring than most but obviously he enjoyed life to the fullest. Just look into his eyes and you can see how alive and mischievous he was. I didn't know this boy but I know a lot of young boys like him. Newshound, if you can't say something nice then just "keep your mouth shut".
on 10 September, 2007 at 2:25 p.m. ( Suggest removal )
Wouldn't it be good if some good came out of this tragic situation (I'm not calling it an accident because it really wasn't)? But my guess is, nothing will. Will kids learn from this? No. I have seen too many young Sunshine Coast teens risk their lives many times and just go back and do it all again. Example. A girl who nearly got killed in a car accident. Did it stop her from doing all the risky things she did before? No. If only kids would realise how precious life is. They aren't invincible like they think they are. From what I know, this guy was always being extremely risky with his life. Karma, maybe?
on 10 September, 2007 at 2:26 p.m. ( Suggest removal )
I'm Tyson's distraught father and one that is VERY proud of my son, Newshound and others who want to take this tact over my son's death. You had to know Tyson to understand. If you do not know the full story do not pass comment because you do offend.

Tyson has more loved ones than most could dream of. Anyone who was lucky to know him understands he died his way - he chose to do what he did. He loved the dare, he loved his friends and families. He was gifted and talented and got away with all but the last stunt.

He never meant it to be like this, it was a tragic accident, a slip that was not meant to leave his friends and loved ones so sad. Tyson never did that! I know he would want to say sorry he got it wrong - but he can't - so I am saying it for him "Sorry I fu......up - luv yous all"

RIP my son, your memory will be with your family, loved ones and friends forever. Until we meet again, God look after my boy.
on 10 September, 2007 at 2:56 p.m. ( Suggest removal )
I do feel terribly sorry for Tyson's family but I also understand where newshound is coming from although I did think his/her delivery was a bit blunt.

As a parent I feel compelled to ask what can we do to stop these fun-loving young blokes taking their idea of fun too far?

It seems that too often a dangerous combination of alcohol (possibly drugs) and that "superman" or bullet proof attitude is claiming the lives of our boys. And while Tyson's death is terribly sad it's hard to believe he didn't know that what he was doing was foolhardy and dangerous.

Hopefully his friends will now learn a painful lesson and start to have the sort of fun that doesn't put their lives or anyone else's in danger.
on 10 September, 2007 at 5:08 p.m. ( Suggest removal )
hey tyso you were the crazest kid and we all now its just no fear you loved every one every one loved you and youll be in memorys for ever craaaaaazy kid
rest in rip brother
i love you

trento
on 10 September, 2007 at 6:23 p.m. ( Suggest removal )
Live by the sword, die by the sword.
When are our kids going to stop this madness?
on 11 September, 2007 at 12:53 p.m. ( Suggest removal )
What has happened to the country? Australia has a reputation around the world for the 'devil-may-care' attitude of it's people, but Heaven forbid someone actually does anything reckless in real life!

With all the cotton-balled, nanny laws to protect people from themselves today, people who ever take a risk are frowned upon.

Now, I'm not condoning bad or reckless behaviour that is displayed by many young people on the coast and elsewhere, because it drives me up the wall too, but attacking this specific young man and his life during this tragic time is beyond reproach.

It's obvious that he has been a much-loved larrikin by friends and family alike, and what has happened to him is very extremely sad. My sympathies to his family.

What has happened to the happy, reckless, charming and endearing Aussie of legend? Is he a myth, or will he be trampled out of existence by the narrow-minded, lifeless and dull?
on 11 September, 2007 at 1:05 p.m. ( Suggest removal )
Good for you Newshound. I completely agree. This kid lived in a way which showed no regard for his life and he lost it. I know his friends, courtesy of their burnouts and parties in our street, and I have to say I do not believe he will be the last in this group to die a senseless and premature death
on 11 September, 2007 at 1:05 p.m. ( Suggest removal )
People wanted to kill Germaine Greer when she said that Steve Irwin deserved it.

Are those same people now agreeing with Newshound? (Not that you can take anyone who doesn't know the name of their own suburb seriously)

I hope not.

My condolences to Tyson's family.
on 11 September, 2007 at 5:10 p.m. ( Suggest removal )
All I want to say is I know Tyson. I was there the night we lost one of best mates. This isnt a page to discuss what teenagers should be and should not be doing. Drugs, alcohol had nothing to do with it - its just how Tyson was. He loved to have fun and loved to take risks, and for Jessica from Maroochydore saying that it wont be the last death in the group, dont you think we have relised what we have lost? I'm sure you were a kid once and went to parties and all the rest so dont come on this page to judge. For the people that know Tyson Leader, we know what he was like a LEGEND AND ALWAYS WILL BE. Love aways Christie R.I.P
on 11 September, 2007 at 5:32 p.m. ( Suggest removal )
Im so sorry about Tyson, he was such a fun person to know (even when he was little). My heart goes out to you all. He has been the daredevil since I met him years ago. I'm glad I had the honour to met him and get to know him for the person he was.

RIP Tyson

Hugs to you all and thinking of you all
Tamara
on 11 September, 2007 at 5:42 p.m. ( Suggest removal )
How can you possibly feel sorry for this guy???!!! HOW CAN YOU BE SO HEARTLESS!!!! How Dare you Newshound speak like you even knew Tyson! I was there on the tragic night it happened and it will never leave my head for the rest of my life!!! Tyson was one of my best mates as he was to everyone... for the reason that he was loved, he was caring, funny, entertaining ... he was just one of a kind!!! He could never be replaced and he will be dearly missed for a long long time to come. He took a piece of all of our hearts!

Its more than a tragic accident... it has changed so many peoples lives forever! So YES you should be sorry cos YES you offended a lot of people... and before you go on with what you "think" you know... this was not a SELF INFLICTED injury! As teenagers do, he was having a lot of fun with his friends and unfortunately pushed it a little too far ... but if he was to know that, I KNOW he would have never done it! And just so people know ... there was no one-hand think. He may have been silly, but why do people have to spread this stuff!

I think if you have a negative opinion... keep it to yourself because it is hard enough dealing with his loss as it is without having negative people putting there 2cents worth in!

RIP Tyso ... we miss you and love you soooo much and you will be in our hearts forever!!!!! Nichole & Jesse xox Best wishes to Alex and Tysons family
on 11 September, 2007 at 5:52 p.m. ( Suggest removal )
And as for you Jessica.... you are as heartless .. if not worse than Newshound! Keep your comments to yourself! You obviously do NOT know Tyson if thats what you think he is like... he means a lot to people so GET OVER your burnouts.. parties and get over yourself because we have just lost a VERY special person... how dare you!
on 11 September, 2007 at 7:32 p.m. ( Suggest removal )
NEWSBOUND AND JESSICA!!!!!! HaHa i pitty you....and i am sick of reading these comments from these poor friends and family so i am here to really put you in your spot ... This question that i am about to ask you is a lose lose situation for both of you because if your answer is NO then millions of people across the world will think you are heartless and if you answer YES then you are contradicting yourself. Here's the question: Did you feel sorry for Steve Irwin when he died?

The reason i am asking this question is that the only difference between Steve Irwin and Tyson Leader is that Tyson didnt get paid millions of dollars for how he lived his life. Steve Irwin put his life in danger every single day and a lot of the time it didnt serve a purpose....he just did it for the thrill and because that was his passion....well that is exactly how Tyson wanted to live his life....unfortunately for these two men...the way they lived there life resulted in the way they passed but at least they enjoyed life to the fullest and lived it the way they wanted to.....i can safely say not one of Tyson's friends and family are angry for what he did because that is Tyson and how he lived his life. If anything they are proud of him and are just sorry that his luck ran out this soon....

I suggest you think about things from all angles before you start to open your mouth.

As for you Tyson Leader, all your friends and family miss you already...I didnt know you as much as i would have liked to. I remember you in my history class....you and danny always put a smile on my face and made me laugh....hehe...you were the class clown Tys....You will be one of the most greatly missed people i know and you should be so proud of yourself for how you lived your life....i know your friends and family are....
R.I.P champ
on 11 September, 2007 at 9:34 p.m. ( Suggest removal )
TYSON LEADER was a great person, and its such a shame that his life has run out so fast.. Tyson was always happy and always had a huge grin on his face like nothing bothered him.. he will be missed greatly by everyone that knew him.. cause i know that i miss him dearly and miss the funny convo's i use to have with him... i hadnt talked to tyson for a while as school had finished untill two weeks ago - i had a great chat to him on msn.. RIP Tyson and we all will be thinking of you dearly.. i know you will be over us smiling like you did best... xoxoxox WITH love
on 12 September, 2007 at 12:05 p.m. ( Suggest removal )
Newshound & Jessica i would love to know how you can even start to think about justifying your comments? Dont bother, we dont want to hear it.

Tyson was a top bloke and will never be forgotten, one of the coasts best. Look after us up there mate, we will never forget that night.

RIP TYSON LEADER - Forever Loved Forever Missed.
on 2 October, 2007 at 12:48 a.m. ( Suggest removal )
Tyson was known everywhere,
he was a leader not a follower.
He was loyal to the ones he loved and never had any regrets.
This boy meant something to pretty much everyone, and if you didnt know this boy you were deffinitly missing out.

I'd like to say that I wish the best to all his family and very close friends.
I know it can't be easy, but hold up your stronge hearts =]

Last few words go to Newshound & Jessica,
you's really are heartless.
I bet if this had of happened to one of your friends or family members you would be heart broken!
And in that case it wouldn't be their fault, you'd feel exactly like Tyson's family do!
But unlike you, we'd actually feel sorry for you and not try and act hard by saying how stupid your kid was/is.
Maybe try to think before you speak (Y).
Have some respect for the people around you.

RIP TYSON!
xo

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