12:00a.m. 10th September 2007
18-year-old Tyson Leader died tragically on the Gold Coast on Friday night after he fell 24 storeys from the Aegean Hotel in the heart of Surfers Paradise.
Jan Leader always knew her son Tyson had the heart of a daredevil.
“I was at his pre-school speaking to one of his teachers and she was looking past me and her eyes were looking up,” she said.
“And there at the very top of the tree was Tyson. He was three years old.
“I knew if I yelled, he might fall, so I said ‘Tyson, you get back down here now’ and he did, but he had a great big smile on his face.
“And that was just him. He just had no fear.”It wouldn’t be the last time Jan’s heart would almost stop after seeing or hearing about her youngest son’s daredevil deeds, but he would answer her concerns with a cheeky grin, an “awww mummm” and a promise to be more careful.
She saw that cheeky smile for the last time on Friday when she dropped Tyson at a friend’s house ahead of his trip to the Gold Coast for the 18th birthday celebrations of one of his best mates.
“I said to him ‘have you packed your toothbrush?’ and he just looked at me and said ‘mum, I’m not going to school camp. I’m 18-years-old,’ so I bit my tongue. “So I just said to him ‘be safe’ and he said ‘yes mum’.”
But as any of the former Mountain Creek High student’s friends would tell you, Tyson would do anything to make others laugh.
It was probably what he was trying to do when he decided to swing off the balcony of a 24th floor unit in a Gold Coast high-rise on Friday night.
He had slipped over the edge and was holding onto the railing in a crouching position with both hands, when he decided to let go with one hand.
With his mate Jimmy Atkins still just 30cm away and staring into his eyes, Tyson’s other hand slipped and he fell.
“We had to go to the morgue to go see him and I just looked at him and said ‘mate, what part of be safe did you not get?’,” Jan said yesterday remembered her son with the cheeky grin.
“But he was just doing what he loved. He is such a social kid and he touched so many kids’ lives. He would just collect people, he just loved everyone and wanted everyone to get along.
“He had a gorgeous girlfriend, he loved his job, everything was just starting to come together for him.”
Tyson’s older brother Ryan, 21, was last night trying to organise a flight from the UK where he has spent the past two years, so he could be with his mum and her husband Matt.
He had just asked his little brother to be best man at his wedding and in the hours before the accident had sent a text message letting “Tyso” know how much he loved him.
But while she waits for her eldest son to come home, Jan said Tyson’s many friends have been “a huge comfort” to her.
Within hours of the accident they had begun dropping by her Buderim home to share their stories, give her hugs and remember a warm, caring and funny teen. Some of those friends, including his girlfriend Alex, gathered for a barbecue at Alexandra Headland yesterday to try and comfort each other.
“It hasn’t sunk in yet,” said Cam Dunn.
“It’ll hit me when he doesn’t come over. I’m still just waiting for him to rock up, but I know it’s not going to happen. It’s surreal.”
Recent Comments
You will always be in my heart….
You were the craziest guy I ever knew… I’ll never forget when you jumped off my roof into the pool… When you put liquid soap around the pool to slide in, and then the pool had bubbles in it… Or when you lit the fireworks and one fell over and headed straight for Kieran and burnt his leg hairs off… But most of all how you lived your life with no fear… And never changed for anyone… I will do my best to look out for Jan for you…I will never forget you… Rest in Peace Tyson James Leader…
~AdOrAbLe AvErAgE~
RIP champ, ur an absolute legend, always will be, will miss u heaps
Nathan
I don't know what to say to you. You were one of the best people I know, always had a smile on your face. If anyone of us was sad you could always cheer us up. I'm going to miss you so much. R.I.P
~ChRiStIe~
Rest in peace brother.
you will always be missed and thought of greatly.
Tuckyy
You will never be forgotten son. I’d like to thank all your friends for their support there’s so much love for you in the world. You are such a legend. You were always the leader of the pack and always will be. I miss you so much son. You lived life to the fullest. You were such an amazing person. I’m so proud of the man you grew up to be. Look out for us all up there. You will always be in our hearts. I’ve always loved you and always will. Rest in Peace son. Eternal love, your daddy
I'm Tyson's sister and can't believe you would make a comment like that!
How would you feel if it was your child or brother or sister? You will never be able to even partly understand what all of Tyson's family and friends are going through until you lose someone who meant so much to all of us in a tragic accident.
Would you be saying the same thing if he had been in a car accident?
RIP little brother....Your memory will live on in all of us forever. We know you are watching over all of us now and we are grateful that you were in our lives even for a short amount of time.
To all his friends and family keep smiling....Tyson lives on in our hearts and memory....he is watching over us all now.
Tyson has more loved ones than most could dream of. Anyone who was lucky to know him understands he died his way - he chose to do what he did. He loved the dare, he loved his friends and families. He was gifted and talented and got away with all but the last stunt.
He never meant it to be like this, it was a tragic accident, a slip that was not meant to leave his friends and loved ones so sad. Tyson never did that! I know he would want to say sorry he got it wrong - but he can't - so I am saying it for him "Sorry I fu......up - luv yous all"
RIP my son, your memory will be with your family, loved ones and friends forever. Until we meet again, God look after my boy.
As a parent I feel compelled to ask what can we do to stop these fun-loving young blokes taking their idea of fun too far?
It seems that too often a dangerous combination of alcohol (possibly drugs) and that "superman" or bullet proof attitude is claiming the lives of our boys. And while Tyson's death is terribly sad it's hard to believe he didn't know that what he was doing was foolhardy and dangerous.
Hopefully his friends will now learn a painful lesson and start to have the sort of fun that doesn't put their lives or anyone else's in danger.
rest in rip brother
i love you
trento
When are our kids going to stop this madness?
With all the cotton-balled, nanny laws to protect people from themselves today, people who ever take a risk are frowned upon.
Now, I'm not condoning bad or reckless behaviour that is displayed by many young people on the coast and elsewhere, because it drives me up the wall too, but attacking this specific young man and his life during this tragic time is beyond reproach.
It's obvious that he has been a much-loved larrikin by friends and family alike, and what has happened to him is very extremely sad. My sympathies to his family.
What has happened to the happy, reckless, charming and endearing Aussie of legend? Is he a myth, or will he be trampled out of existence by the narrow-minded, lifeless and dull?
Are those same people now agreeing with Newshound? (Not that you can take anyone who doesn't know the name of their own suburb seriously)
I hope not.
My condolences to Tyson's family.
RIP Tyson
Hugs to you all and thinking of you all
Tamara
Its more than a tragic accident... it has changed so many peoples lives forever! So YES you should be sorry cos YES you offended a lot of people... and before you go on with what you "think" you know... this was not a SELF INFLICTED injury! As teenagers do, he was having a lot of fun with his friends and unfortunately pushed it a little too far ... but if he was to know that, I KNOW he would have never done it! And just so people know ... there was no one-hand think. He may have been silly, but why do people have to spread this stuff!
I think if you have a negative opinion... keep it to yourself because it is hard enough dealing with his loss as it is without having negative people putting there 2cents worth in!
RIP Tyso ... we miss you and love you soooo much and you will be in our hearts forever!!!!! Nichole & Jesse xox Best wishes to Alex and Tysons family
The reason i am asking this question is that the only difference between Steve Irwin and Tyson Leader is that Tyson didnt get paid millions of dollars for how he lived his life. Steve Irwin put his life in danger every single day and a lot of the time it didnt serve a purpose....he just did it for the thrill and because that was his passion....well that is exactly how Tyson wanted to live his life....unfortunately for these two men...the way they lived there life resulted in the way they passed but at least they enjoyed life to the fullest and lived it the way they wanted to.....i can safely say not one of Tyson's friends and family are angry for what he did because that is Tyson and how he lived his life. If anything they are proud of him and are just sorry that his luck ran out this soon....
I suggest you think about things from all angles before you start to open your mouth.
As for you Tyson Leader, all your friends and family miss you already...I didnt know you as much as i would have liked to. I remember you in my history class....you and danny always put a smile on my face and made me laugh....hehe...you were the class clown Tys....You will be one of the most greatly missed people i know and you should be so proud of yourself for how you lived your life....i know your friends and family are....
R.I.P champ
Tyson was a top bloke and will never be forgotten, one of the coasts best. Look after us up there mate, we will never forget that night.
RIP TYSON LEADER - Forever Loved Forever Missed.
he was a leader not a follower.
He was loyal to the ones he loved and never had any regrets.
This boy meant something to pretty much everyone, and if you didnt know this boy you were deffinitly missing out.
I'd like to say that I wish the best to all his family and very close friends.
I know it can't be easy, but hold up your stronge hearts =]
Last few words go to Newshound & Jessica,
you's really are heartless.
I bet if this had of happened to one of your friends or family members you would be heart broken!
And in that case it wouldn't be their fault, you'd feel exactly like Tyson's family do!
But unlike you, we'd actually feel sorry for you and not try and act hard by saying how stupid your kid was/is.
Maybe try to think before you speak (Y).
Have some respect for the people around you.
RIP TYSON!
xo
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